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Dixie's Tea Party - REVISING - Thanks for your patience

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This site is lovingly dedicated to my precious Angel, Lori Sue ... and her girlfriends in the "Little Girl Community."  This site will be considered controversial to many ... there is nothing naughty here, but if you are offended by "alternative lifestyles" .... leave now .... If you would like to learn about this community and have an open heart....
Welcome, Welcome, Welcome....
 
Jes a bit about Dixie:
 
First off....I am of average intelligence, have no mental health diagnoses (am under no physician's care), and do not use illegal drugs!  So.....there goes all my excuses .... (tee-hee)
 
I am a mature (*giggle* in age only) genetic girl who has fallen in love with the "little girl" community. My epiphany came in January, 2002 when I met my soulmate ... who is a male hetero crossdresser. His "second self" is a little girl of four years old. Her name is Lori Sue. I am very, very protective of her, so I will not give out any other personal information about her.  You see, I am her Mommy and a good Mommy always protects her little one. 
 
I do not crossdress and am not transgendered. I am a "plain ole girl." I am who I am and am accepted as such among the little girls I have grown to love.

Like many people, I also thought that crossdressers were all gay. This is not always the case. Some live apparently "normal" adult lives and simply enjoy dressing like the opposite gender. My love enjoys dressing like a little girl who is four years old. In day-to-day life, Lori Sue functions as a "normal man" at a "normal job" doing "normal things." Normal = status quo; which, to those who are citizens of this world, means a place to pretend to be like everyone else or as "expected."
 
Another misconception is that "little girls" are Pedophiles.  I have learn that this is very far from the truth.  Most men who are members of this community are family people....with wives and children.  This is their form of self-expression -- and such a joyful happy way to express themselves.  Most concentrate on being "proper little ladies."  Most are extremely close and loyal.  "Bad apples" show up in any culture or society ... this community is certainly not exempt ... BUT...the bad apples are usually very easily recognizable and are not truly members of this community.

Hopefully this site will shed some light on a very misunderstood world of people, who just want to be "themselves." I very staunchly defend their right to be who they were born to be.... petticoats.... crinolins.... dresses.... hairbows.....and ALL!!

What I have learned:

Lori Sue and all her little girlfriends are important to me because they have taught me acceptance above all. They also understand unconditional love and give it freely to all who are willing to learn their world. I have never been more accepted than within this community.

Why this World Means So Much to Me:

Lori Sue and her little girlfriends are my heros.  They silently sit and watch and wait for that special time -- with poor daddy looking over his shoulder -- to come out and SHINE! 

One day .... people will be able to be themselves, any place and any time ... this is not just a dream, it is expectation!

Lori Has Her Very Own Guest MAP!
oh, do please stop by.....

Go to the last page of this Web Site for Guest Map....

"Reality is that which, when you stop believing in it, doesn't go away." --Philip K. Dick

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My Love and My Heart ....
My Funny Valentine!

Mommy's Angel....
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SO MANY WUNNERFUL PLACES TO VISIT! 


Click on any link below:


(All of these are great sites to help you learn & grow)

PETTIPOND: One of my favorite sites. It is designed to support Big and Little Girls

PETTICOATED: Another great site ... Hostess: "Susan McDonald"

To learn more about the personal side of being a little girl ... CLICK HERE for Karla's World

CLICK HERE to visit our page all about Camp X ... Including Lori's first Camp Report!

Myth: The reason men crossdress is... Fact: There are multiple reasons you'll find men in dresses. A small fraction are entertainers, some are young people demonstrating rebellion. A few crossdress as a sexual fetish while others crossdress to be outrageous (those pig-nosed men cheering their football team from the end zone). But the overwhelming majority of crossdressers do so for another reason entirely - self _expression.

Myth: Men who wear dresses are homosexuals. Fact: Nope. Most crossdressers are strictly heterosexual. The proportion of gays among crossdressers is the same small percentage as in the rest of society. Speaking of percentages, perhaps 5% of all men are 'closet' (secret) crossdressers. I wonder which 25 of our congressmen are covert devotees of Dana Buchman and Ellen Tracy?

Myth: Crossdressers are just seeking sexual partners. Fact: While genetic women sometimes use clothing to signal sexual availability, most of the time a woman's attire is simply a personal _expression of attitude and style. It's the same with crossdressers.

Myth: Crossdressers are sissies. Fact: I wouldn't risk a broken nose on that. Among my circle of crossdressing friends are Green Berets, U.S.M.C. Force Recon snipers, SEALs, law enforcement officers, firefighters, foundry workers, millwrights, test pilots, and even a rocket scientist (really). Crossdressers seem to gravitate toward 'macho' professions, often in denial of their emerging gender _expression.

Myth: Crossdressing is a psychological problem. Fact: Hardly. Modern psychology accepts that crossdressing is an _expression of personality which is as immutable as left-handedness. Any 'problems' crossdressers may develop are due to social stigma, prejudice, and bigotry - not disorder. Social judgment is not a valid basis upon which to regard human idiosyncrasies as mental disorders.

Myth: Crossdressers want surgical sex changes.Fact: Most crossdressers are perfectly happy with their standard issue plumbing. A very few individuals feel so strongly about being a 'woman trapped in a man's body' that sexual reassignment surgery is undertaken, but while sensationalized in the media, these 'transsexuals' are quite rare.

Myth: Crossdressing is 'sinful'.
Fact: Biblical scholars agree the relevant passages (Deut. 22:5) refer to pagan priests and priestesses exchanging clothing in worshop rituals of false gods. Moreover, women in our society wear men's clothing regularly (equally prohibited in the same verse) and fundamentalists don't cast stones - why the double standard?

Myth: Crossdressers are perverts.Fact: This misunderstanding is the result of media driven stereotypes (Psycho, Silence of the Lambs, Rocky Horror Picture Show, etc.) and is not based on fact. Crossdressing is simply an outer _expression of inner feminine feelings. Spouses, children, family, friends, and associates needn't feel threatened.

Myth: Crossdressers are restroom peeping toms.
Fact: When crossdressers use the facility which is appropriate for their expressed gender, they are simply going through the door which presents the least risk. Men are far more phobic and prone to violence toward crossdressers than are women, so it's very much a safety issue for the crossdresser.

Myth: Crossdressing is illegal. Fact: With the possible exception of a few ancient and largely unenforcable 'disguise' ordinances, people are free to wear whatever fashion and style of clothing they choose and cannot be compelled by authorities to restrict their apparel to gender specific attire, else women wouldn't be allowed pantsuits.

Borrowed from Lacey Leigh, Author of "7 Secrets of Successful Crossdressers" ... thank you so much Lacey!

Visit her at http://www.LaceyLeigh.com

Want to get in touch? You can send me e-mail at:

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Sisters are forever .... 
Mommies are too...
Love is the bond what holds us all together.....